TL;DR: Safety Essentials
- Never send money to strangers.
- Keep chats on the platform.
- Meet in public daylight.
- Trust your gut instincts.
Last Updated: 2024-05-20 • By Thailand Blossoms Safety Team
Stay Secure and Confident
International dating should be exciting and rewarding. By following these essential safety guidelines, you can protect yourself and focus on building genuine connections.
General Safety
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Protect Your Personal Information: Never share your social security number, home or work address, or details about your daily routine with people you don't know.
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Stay on the Platform: Keep conversations on the Thailand Blossoms platform while you're getting to know someone. Use our secure messaging and video call features.
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Research Your Match: It's okay to search for your match on social media or search engines to verify their identity.
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Report Suspicious Behavior: If someone is being offensive, asking for money, or making you feel uncomfortable, report them immediately.
Financial Safety
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Never Send Money: This is the most important rule. Never send money, wire transfers, or provide financial information to anyone you met online, regardless of the 'emergency'.
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Be Wary of Hardluck Stories: Scammers often use tragic stories about medical bills, travel costs, or family emergencies to ask for money.
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Keep Your Bank Details Private: Never share your credit card number, bank account information, or login credentials.
Meeting in Person
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Meet in Public: For your first few meetings, always choose a busy, public place during daylight hours.
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Tell Someone You Trust: Share your plans, including where you're going and who you're meeting, with a friend or family member.
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Stay Sober: Avoid excessive alcohol consumption. Keep your judgment sharp and your wits about you.
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Handle Your Own Transportation: Always have your own way to get to and from the date. Don't let your date pick you up or drop you off at your home on the first meeting.
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Trust Your Instincts: If an interaction feels wrong or you feel unsafe, leave immediately. You don't owe anyone an explanation.
Health & Respect
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Consent is Essential: Both parties must give clear, enthusiastic consent for any physical interaction.
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Know Your Status: Practice safe sex and discuss sexual health openly with your partner.
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Respect Boundaries: Everyone has different boundaries. Respect them, and expect yours to be respected in return.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is international dating safe?
Yes, international dating is safe when you use a trusted platform like Thailand Blossoms and follow essential safety guidelines such as keeping communication on the platform and never sending money to strangers.
How can I verify if my Thai match is real?
You can use video calls on our platform to see your match in real-time. Additionally, you can search for their social media profiles or use search engines to verify their identity.
What should I do if someone asks for money?
Never send money to anyone you met online. If a member asks for financial assistance for any reason, report them to our support team immediately.